If you want something, you can't just wish for it....you've got to make it happen!!
October 1, 2014
As children we all have dreams of what we want to be when we grown up, what careers we want to have, how we want our lives to be lived and who we might want to share it with. However in reality how many of us can say we took hold of that dream and made it happen? Or are currently pursuing it now?
So take a minute and look around you. What have you done recently to make you feel proud?
What do you feel totally in charge of and what in your life really gives you that feeling of
fulfilment and really being alive?
Identified a few things? Great! Take a few more moments to really feel that essence of fulfilment - what do you notice?
a) Does your heart beat faster?
b) Feel a tingle up your spine?
c) Do the hairs stand up on the back of your neck?
Maybe it's more subtle than that and you are smiling or even envisioning those happy moments. It's great to celebrate those successes.
Now consider the areas in your life where things aren't going as well as you had hoped... What's holding you back? Part of our makeup is the values that we hold true to our hearts - perhaps the value of love, determination, honesty and courage, to name a few.
When you connect your values to those areas that aren't going so well - are you really honouring your values? Too often in life we get caught up in the moment of everyday life and don't strive to stay true to what we really want.
So how do you get back on track and connect with the feeling of fulfilment you may have tapped into earlier when looking back on the successes? Taking time to focus energy on you is so important and in one respect reading this is the first step to making that dream a reality.
So answer this... What's stopping you from chasing that dream? And really taking control of your life and saying yes to the life you really want to lead. Maybe applying for that promotion, going out there and grabbing the things you want in life with both hands, having the confidence to stand up in front of others, feel more at ease in social settings etc.
What's the one thing right now that you keep thinking about but never do anything to change it? If you had one wish right now to make a difference in your life what would it be? Is it about putting yourself first, saying no to others and even making powerful choices and sticking to them?
It's not enough to just wish for it, you have to make it happen! Would you like to find out more about how you can get back on track and discover the life you're entitled to live?
Let me help you to illuminate the pathway of possibilities and support you on a journey to live a more fulfilling life. Go on reach for the stars!